Understanding Your Neptune Square and Your Spiritual Awakening in Midlife

Neptune in Your Birth Chart: The Planet of Dreams and Spirituality

Neptune is the planet of spirituality, illusions, and dreams, governing the Zodiac sign of Pisces and the 12th house of retreat. Representing both the divine and the deceptive, it has a profound influence on how we connect with the mystical and our dreams.

Neptune takes 144 years to transit the entire zodiac, spending about 12-13 years in each sign. Most people born in the 70s and 80s are currently experiencing, or are about to experience, their Neptune square—a significant astrological event that typically occurs in the late 30s to early 40s. This is when transiting Neptune forms a challenging 90-degree angle (square) to its natal position in your birth chart. For those with Neptune in Sagittarius (1970-1984), the square is happening now; for Neptune in Capricorn (1984-1998), it will occur in a few years.

What is a Neptune Square?

A Neptune square is a time of deep self-reflection and transformation. It can bring confusion, disillusionment, and a reevaluation of your life’s direction, dreams, and ideals. The square often asks, “What illusions or fantasies have I been living under? What’s real and what’s not?”

Jennifer Freed, a well-known psychological astrologer, describes Neptune as the planet that “helps us understand how we dream, imagine, merge, and escape; how our psychic powers might manifest; where we cast ourselves as victims; and how we can merge with the timeless and eternal.”

When Neptune is squaring itself, the illusions we’ve built around career, relationships, or personal goals are often challenged. This period pushes us to let go of idealistic fantasies that no longer serve us, making room for greater clarity.

Neptune by Zodiac Signs: What Does Your Generation Dream About?

  • Neptune in Sagittarius (1970-1984): A generation seeking higher knowledge, spirituality, and truth, yet also dealing with escapism through idealism.
  • Neptune in Capricorn (1984-1998): Focus on responsibility, rule-following, and ethics, with a need to overcome conservative ideals.
  • Neptune in Aquarius (1998-2012): Visionary thinking, pushing for independence and humanitarianism, coupled with lofty ideals.
  • Neptune in Pisces (2012-2026): A generation immersed in spirituality and creative dreams, yet prone to escapism through illusions.

Neptune in the Houses: Where is Your Idealism?

The house where Neptune resides in your natal chart points to an area of life where you are likely to be idealistic or even prone to fantasy. Here’s a quick look at what each house represents:

  • 1st House: Self-identity and outward appearance.
  • 2nd House: Money, values, and material resources.
  • 3rd House: Communication and learning.
  • 4th House: Home and family.
  • 5th House: Creativity, romance, and children.
  • 6th House: Work, daily habits, and health.
  • 7th House: Relationships and partnerships.
  • 8th House: Transformation, death, shared resources.
  • 9th House: Higher education, travel, and philosophy.
  • 10th House: Career and public reputation.
  • 11th House: Friendships and communities.
  • 12th House: Spirituality, dreams, and hidden strengths.

Reflection Questions:

  • What sign is your Neptune in, and what does that mean for your generation’s dreams and spiritual ideals?
  • In what house is Neptune located in your chart? How does this influence your idealism in that area of life?

The Neptune Square: Signs It’s Happening in Your Life

A Neptune square can be felt as:

  • A sudden disillusionment in relationships or career.
  • A spiritual awakening or deep questioning of life’s purpose.
  • Increased confusion, mental fog, or a desire to escape.
  • A breaking down of long-held ideals or fantasies.
  • Increased sensitivity to spiritual or creative pursuits.

For example, if your natal Neptune is in Sagittarius in your 11th house, and transiting Neptune is in Pisces in your 2nd house, this could signal a time of re-evaluating your financial values or redefining your relationship to material security.

What to Expect Next:

As you navigate this Neptune square, it’s important to explore where disillusionment or idealism may be holding you back. Be open to releasing what’s no longer aligned with your higher purpose.

Use this time for deep reflection, spiritual exploration, and connecting with your intuition. Embrace the transformation with tools like meditation, journaling, or working with an astrologer to gain deeper insight into your journey.


Call to Action: Curious about how your Neptune square is affecting your life? Book an astrology reading to explore your natal chart and the specific transits that are influencing you right now. Understand the spiritual lessons Neptune is offering and how to align with your soul’s true path.

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